Relationship Goals

1. No blame: Do not endlessly blame the partner about their shortcomings.
2. No judgment: Do not judge your partner according to your own standards. They can be different people. Embrace the differences.
3. List the lacks: Make a personal list of your own lacks, like bad habits, then tirelessly work on it.
4. Request list: Make a list of 3 to 5 habits of your partner that you can’t deal with. Share the list with them respectfully and request them to work on those habits.
5. Delete past hurts: Learn the lessons, then erase the past hurts and move on.
6. Respect of family: Do not mention any family or friends in derogatory manner.
7. No control: Give full freedom to each other. We are individuals first and freedom is our basic right.
8. Surrender ego: Give up ego completely.
9. Stay calm: Practice meditation for calmness. It will help you stay calm by avoiding temper and irritation.
10. Keep relationship fresh: Dating each other always. Stay in your courtship phase. Plan surprises. No conversation about others should happen in your personal time.
11. Plan couple vacations: Arrange baby sitters or take help from family and friends.
12. Self-care: Make sure that you take care of yourself so that you are attractive to each other. This could be through personal grooming, fitness, healthy eating habits, etc.
13. Practice friendship:Always try be each other’s best friends.
14. Be lovers: Express via sweet romantic gestures such as, lots of hugs and kisses.
15. Love is not only care: Though care is an integral aspect of a loving relationship. We often confuse love with care. Love is sweet gestures like hugs and kisses, saying sweet romantic words to each other, showing affection. Care is doing chores for each other like helping out in the house, etc. We all can take care of ourselves and others too but not to confuse the both.
16. No control on children: Make only suggestions, offer guidance, support and pay attention to their choices as well.
17. Learn new things: Learn and practice new things together like dance, sports, etc.
18. Respect always: Always respect your partner. Even more in front of others.
19. Have personal lives: One should have a personal friend circle as well, hangout with your own friends too. Growing as a person and having personal life is very important aspect of couple’s relationship.
20. Respectful relationships: Make sure other relationships are respectful, without any intimacy. No body contact and no extra attention to others in front of your spouse.
21. Loving partners: Make sure everyone knows you are loving partners. More loving gestures in front of others like holding hands, hugs, sweet compliments, eye contact, respect, and compliments.